Selena Gomez has finally addressed the swirling rumors about her relationship with record producer Benny Blanco, clarifying that despite recent speculation, the couple is not engaged. In an interview with Vanity Fair published on Monday, the 32-year-old singer and actress opened up about her relationship with Blanco, emphasizing the unique bond they share over conforming to societal expectations.

The engagement rumors first ignited last month when Gomez was spotted wearing what appeared to be an engagement ring on her left hand. The sighting led many to believe that Blanco, 36, had proposed. However, Gomez's recent comments suggest that the couple’s relationship is more about authenticity and mutual support than adhering to traditional milestones.

"We always make sure we're protecting what we have, but there's no rules," Gomez said, addressing the speculation directly. "I want him to always be himself. I always want to be myself." This statement reflects a growing trend among celebrities who prioritize personal fulfillment and emotional connections over public perceptions and traditional expectations.

The timing of Gomez’s comments is particularly significant, coming just months after Benny Blanco hinted at the possibility of marriage during an interview with Howard Stern in May. When Stern suggested that wedding bells might be in the couple’s future, Blanco enthusiastically responded, "You and me both," further fueling public speculation about their relationship status.

The engagement rumors gained traction when Gomez posted a photo on her Instagram Story featuring Blanco, with a heart emoji strategically placed over her ring finger. This cryptic post led fans to believe that an engagement announcement might be imminent. However, confusion arose when Gomez attended the "Only Murders in the Building" Season 4 premiere in Los Angeles on August 22 without wearing the much-discussed ring, as reported by E! News.

While the couple’s future plans remain a topic of interest for fans and the media alike, Gomez made it clear in her Vanity Fair interview just how important Blanco is to her. "I've never been loved this way. He's just been a light. A complete light in my life," she shared, expressing the depth of their connection. "He's my best friend. I love telling him everything."

The timeline of Gomez and Blanco’s relationship has largely remained private, with few details shared publicly. Gomez first confirmed their relationship in December 2023 when she interacted with fan accounts on social media, liking posts that featured her and Blanco together. At the time, she commented, "He is my absolute everything in my heart," further solidifying their relationship status in the eyes of the public.

Gomez’s approach to her relationship with Blanco, characterized by a focus on personal growth and mutual respect, aligns with a broader cultural shift towards redefining what it means to be in a committed partnership. Rather than succumbing to external pressures or conventional expectations, Gomez and Blanco appear to be navigating their relationship on their own terms.

As for the future, Gomez’s comments suggest that while marriage might not be off the table, it is not a priority for the couple right now. Instead, they seem focused on nurturing their relationship and continuing to support each other as individuals. This approach has resonated with many of Gomez’s fans, who appreciate her candidness and her commitment to living authentically.