Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, one of Hollywood's most talked-about couples, appear to be moving towards a divorce. Amid mounting speculation, sources close to the couple reveal that Affleck is striving to ensure the separation is as smooth and respectful as possible, with a strong focus on maintaining family harmony.

For months, rumors have swirled about the state of Affleck and Lopez’s marriage, with neither party making any public statements. Lopez, known for her openness about their relationship, has remained uncharacteristically silent, adding to the speculation. Meanwhile, Affleck, who prefers to keep his personal life private, has been grappling with the decision to end the marriage.

A source close to the situation disclosed to Closer that Affleck, star of "Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice," is ready to "check out" of the marriage but wants to ensure the process is handled delicately. "Ben has been grappling with this decision for ages, but by the time he actually moved out, he'd already been through all the scenarios and emotionally accepted that splitting was the best decision," the insider shared. "The last thing he wants to do is hurt J-Lo - he still loves and respects her. And of course, the family situation comes into this heavily, which is why he's agreed to do this in a civilized and loving way, just like he did with Jennifer Garner."

The couple is reportedly working to "get all their ducks in a row" before filing for divorce officially. Affleck, who shares children Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel with ex-wife Jennifer Garner, is also deeply considerate of Lopez's children, Max and Emme. Ensuring that the children are affected as minimally as possible is a top priority for both.

"It's going to be a very tough adjustment, so his priority is being sensitive to that and making this as smooth for them as he possibly can," the source explained. "That being said, Ben's not backing down - he's very clear that he just doesn't think it can work. He hates the fact that this is causing J-Lo pain and feels quite guilty about that, which is why he's agreed to slow it all down. He wants to find a way where they can end their marriage amicably and remain on good, positive terms."

The split rumors intensified when the couple put their shared $61 million mansion on the market, with reports indicating that Affleck was never particularly fond of the property. They are now attempting to sell it for $65 million, further fueling speculation about their impending separation.

Despite the personal challenges, Affleck is determined to maintain a respectful and amicable relationship with Lopez. The actor's approach echoes the way he handled his divorce from Garner, where the focus was on ensuring the well-being of their children and preserving a positive co-parenting relationship.

The impending divorce marks a significant shift for the Hollywood power couple, whose whirlwind romance and subsequent marriage captivated fans worldwide. Both Affleck and Lopez have had high-profile relationships in the past, and their union was seen as a rekindling of a legendary romance that first began in the early 2000s.

As the couple navigates this difficult period, the emphasis remains on handling the separation with dignity and care, particularly for the sake of their blended family. The decision to move forward with a divorce, while painful, is viewed as a necessary step for both to find happiness and stability in their individual lives.