Jennifer Lopez's relentless pursuit of the perfect surrogate mother and dream home has left her husband, Ben Affleck, feeling overwhelmed and exasperated, insiders reveal, according to the tabloid Globe.

The 53-year-old singer and the 50-year-old actor, who tied the knot last year after canceling their 2003 wedding, are eager to have a child together through IVF. They have been meeting with potential surrogates for months, but according to a source, Jennifer keeps having second thoughts at the last moment. "She’s driving Ben up the wall. She’s too damn picky and indecisive.”

Affleck is said to be fully supportive of starting a family with his wife, but her continuous quest for perfection is wearing him down. The insider adds, “the endless quest for perfection is really burning him out.”

Jennifer's meticulous nature is also reportedly causing delays in purchasing a new home for their growing family, which includes her twins with ex-husband Marc Anthony. Insiders claim that Lopez's indecisiveness has led them to back out of three separate real estate transactions.

“It’s costing them hundreds of thousands in lost fees because she keeps agreeing and then changing her mind at the last second,” the source explains. “But even more frustrating for Ben is all the time they’re wasting.”

The combination of the ongoing surrogate search and difficulties in finding a new home has reportedly strained their relationship. While Affleck is known for his patience, insiders say he's reached his breaking point: “Ben’s patient but he’s got his limits — and he’s reached them!”

With the couple's journey to expand their family and find a perfect home proving challenging, it remains to be seen how they will navigate these hurdles together.