Speculation is mounting over the state of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s marriage as whispers of their potential separation circulate among their Montecito neighbors. Signs of marital strain have been emerging for months, with the couple reportedly leading increasingly separate lives. In late September and early October, Prince Harry embarked on a solo overseas trip spanning roughly 24 nights, while Meghan attended events in Los Angeles alone. Adding to the intrigue, a video of Harry surfing, shared by photographer Raimana Van Bastolaer, fueled speculation, with one commenter noting it had a “divorced-dad-having-a-midlife-crisis energy.”
Rumors about their $14 million Montecito mansion being visited by a moving truck have also heightened speculation. “They’ve clearly been living separate lives, but a sighting like that is usually what spells the end for couples,” a source close to the community remarked, via In Touch. “Everyone is wondering: Have they split?” So far, the pair has not been seen in public together for 75 days.
Local residents suggest that Harry and Meghan’s six-year marriage may be unraveling. “We know what’s really going on, and they seem to be over,” a Montecito local told In Touch. “The buzz on the street here is that it’s only a matter of time before they officially split. We knew Meghan would break his heart.”
The challenges facing their marriage appear to reflect deeper issues about lifestyle and ambition. Harry’s enthusiasm for life in California reportedly waned as their joint business ventures struggled. “He’s just not as on board with life here as he was in the beginning,” said a local source, referencing Harry’s recent philanthropic activities, including a visit to London for the WellChild Awards and a brief tour in South Africa. “He’s been criticized for being in over his head or doing nothing. The truth is, other than the army, the only thing he’s ever really been good at — or is trained to do — is being a working member of the royal family.”
Meanwhile, Meghan has been pursuing her own ambitions, focused on building her lifestyle brand, American Riviera Orchard. “She’s extremely driven and determined to succeed, even if Harry is clearly unhappy,” a source added. Reports indicate their recent quasi-royal tours, such as trips to Nigeria and Colombia, appeared more for show than substance.
As their relationship reportedly deteriorates, Harry has sought solace from an unexpected source. “He connected with a pseudo life coach — a motherly-type woman — who’s become his shoulder to cry on,” a neighbor revealed. “Harry has apparently discussed his homesickness and feelings about Meghan with her. He feels trapped.” The potential custody battle over their children, Archie, 5, and Lilibet, 3, is another point of concern, particularly given their royal lineage and Harry’s desire for them to maintain ties with King Charles, who is reportedly battling cancer.
There are hints, however, that Harry may be seeking a pathway back to his roots in England. Recent signs of reconciliation with his estranged brother, Prince William, have emerged. William mentioned Harry by name for the first time since the publication of Harry’s memoir, Spare, and Harry reportedly reconnected with his Spencer cousins during a trip to the U.K. “He’s been in touch with his old schoolmates, whom he hadn’t talked to much since the wedding because they never got along with Meghan. But lately, they’ve been chatting on WhatsApp,” a source said.
In public, Harry and Meghan continue to project a united front. The pair recently appeared together in a video message for their Archewell Foundation, emphasizing their commitment to online safety for children. “We are at a crossroads,” Harry said during the appearance, highlighting the importance of protecting the younger generation. Meghan added, “My husband and I recognize that today’s reality is marked by greater connectivity and advanced technology.”
Their advocacy work has earned praise, but observers wonder whether it can mask the reported strain behind closed doors. For now, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle remain in the public eye, balancing private tensions and their professional commitments. Whether their bond can withstand the pressures of fame, ambition, and their complex pasts remains to be seen.