Shantel Jackson recently went viral after sharing insights about her breakup with rapper Nelly, shedding light on their separation and the reasons behind it. During an Instagram Live session, the 39-year-old Jackson spoke candidly about the end of their nearly seven-year relationship, emphasizing that there were no hard feelings and that sometimes people simply grow apart.
"I left because I wanted space to see, maybe... will the space bring us back together? Or do I need this space because I need to rip off that band-aid," Jackson explained. "Initially I wanted the space, or the break to rip that band-aid off."
Jackson's comments struck a chord with many, leading to a mixed response on social media platforms like TikTok. One user commented, "She's hurting because he's happier where he is now and that's okay," while another questioned, "Girl...at this point why?" A third user referenced Nelly's new relationship with Ashanti, stating, "She knew that man still loved Ashanti."
Nelly, whose real name is Cornell Iral Haynes Jr., has indeed found happiness with his ex-girlfriend Ashanti. The couple, who first began dating in 2003, had a long-term on-and-off relationship before parting ways in 2013. More than a decade later, they have rekindled their romance and are now expecting their first child together.
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"I think it surprised both of us though. It wasn't anything that I don't think was planned," Nelly, 49, told 'Entertainment Tonight' about their reconciliation. A source close to 'ET' confirmed that the couple is "very happy" and "enjoying their time together." The pair secretly tied the knot in December 2023, with the news being announced in April, according to 'Essence.'
Jackson's level-headed approach to her breakup with Nelly highlights her maturity and understanding of relationships. "Just sometimes people don't work out. People grow apart. Sometimes one person might wanna be in the situation and the other person is like...'This isn't working.' It happens, you know?" she said during her Instagram Live session.
Jackson's openness about her decision to end the relationship underscores a broader theme of personal growth and the importance of recognizing when it's time to move on. Her perspective resonated with many viewers who appreciated her honesty and vulnerability.
While Jackson and Nelly have gone their separate ways, both seem to be finding their paths forward. Jackson, who has maintained a positive outlook, continues to focus on her personal and professional life. Meanwhile, Nelly and Ashanti's renewed relationship adds a new chapter to their long history together.
The reactions to Jackson's comments highlight the complexities of public relationships and the scrutiny that comes with them. Social media users' responses ranged from supportive to critical, reflecting the diverse opinions people have about celebrity relationships.